I like this forum. I like that it is only about 20-30 people and over the years we have gotten to know each other. We have no problem sending something to people who are truly looking for something, asking nothing in return. We know that what comes around goes around.
We are open to new members, but I see them come in, make a post about that is always about getting banned at GJ - they seem to have pride in that - and they never post again. Which is too bad on one hand (if you're not growing your dying) but on the other hand, it is kinda nice as we don't want to be just a place to go to hate on other people. That isn't sustainable. Or interesting.
I do spend time "over there" mainly because it is such a large place and there are more posts than here, but I don't get the depth and personality that this place has.