I got the '04 van in 2007, a lease vehicle that the 3 year manufacturers warranty was expiring, so fleet companies choose then to trade in and get new. Had 89,000 miles on her, I assume the lease company did good maintenance.
Since then it's been oil change every 3-4,000 miles or 3 months. Uses 5w-30. I usually do the changes myself, then get lazy and have a lube change place do it - and I get instantly reminded why I do it myself.
The rear main seal was replaced 10 years ago, but still had a small leak somewhere. (Would have a few drops a week build-up in the garage). Mechanics couldn't ever find it, and I rarely saw a drop on the dipstick when checking it 2-3 times a week. Two months ago the drops got bigger, told them they had to find out where it was coming from. Long story short, found a new mechanic and they replaced the pan gasket. Problem solved.
So I figured it was now or never to switch to synth if I were going to do it. Engine runs great - miles aren't too high, might benefit from it, might not. Always willing to pay for quality, so if synth will provide a real upgrade it's worth the price. If not, I'll keep feeding her the way I've been.