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Offline TacticalFun

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My life crashed
« on: January 21, 2024, 05:17:18 PM »
Hello everyone.

Long time no see.

My project in Vietnam was canceled in November, and around the same time, my passport was stolen.

I spent 6 weeks in a hotel with no pay and finally came back to the US on New Year's.

I am going through divorce here, so I lost my house and am now homeless, living in a hotel in Ohio for work.

I had to make a Gofundme so I could eat, and everything is generally not good.

I have a long road ahead of me to rebuild my life, but I will start to be active here again.

I hope everyone is doing well.






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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #1 on: January 21, 2024, 05:42:43 PM »
Wow mate what a bummer.
I suppose now you can re shape your life exactly how you want it so chip up move forward.
Is the need enough? Or does the want suffice?

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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #2 on: January 21, 2024, 05:43:06 PM »
Wow mate what a bummer.
I suppose now you can re shape your life exactly how you want it so chip up move forward.
I hope so

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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #3 on: January 21, 2024, 06:12:57 PM »
To quote Yoda do or don't  there is no try.
Not trying to be a hard arse but it's all up you, your focus and determination to maintain a forward direction and to not get stuck in the mud.
Take some time to figure out where you want to be , make a plan and overcome every obstacle in your way one at a time.
Problems are a gift because they challenge us to find a solution then give us the gift of satisfaction once we move on and past them.

Don`t forget your mates here as a sounding post.
Is the need enough? Or does the want suffice?

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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #4 on: January 21, 2024, 06:20:38 PM »
It happens to us all. Not the end of the world, it just seems that way at times. As Jabber says, its up to you, where you go from here. Your a talented individual with some good experiences behind you. You should have no trouble moving forward.

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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #5 on: January 21, 2024, 06:22:02 PM »
It happens to us all. Not the end of the world, it just seems that way at times. As Jabber says, its up to you, where you go from here. Your a talented individual with some good experiences behind you. You should have no trouble moving forward.
Thank you

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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #6 on: January 21, 2024, 06:22:33 PM »
To quote Yoda do or don't  there is no try.
Not trying to be a hard arse but it's all up you, your focus and determination to maintain a forward direction and to not get stuck in the mud.
Take some time to figure out where you want to be , make a plan and overcome every obstacle in your way one at a time.
Problems are a gift because they challenge us to find a solution then give us the gift of satisfaction once we move on and past them.

Don`t forget your mates here as a sounding post.
Thank you. I wont forget.

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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #7 on: January 21, 2024, 07:05:11 PM »
I am very sorry to hear all that. I'm rooting for you and if I can help please let me know. Your posts have been missed.
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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #8 on: January 21, 2024, 07:25:35 PM »
I am very sorry to hear all that. I'm rooting for you and if I can help please let me know. Your posts have been missed.
Thank you, sir. I will start posting again. I have a gofundme for anyone who can help. Its been a disaster. https://gofund.me/144a2bc3

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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #9 on: January 21, 2024, 07:28:50 PM »
Sorry to hear about the hard times you are experiencing. Like the others said,  during tough times you have to dig deep within and find the resolve to pick yourself up,  dust yourself off, and take another swing at it! You are not alone though you likely feel like it. Each of us (unless by some freak chance) face dark and challenging times and issues in our life, certainly different from one person to the next. Regardless the issue, for the one slogging through the crap, it is a dark time. Hard times, while never fun, depending on how you react can actually make you a stronger and more confident person better equipped to face the additional obstacles that you, like everyone else will no doubt face again at some point in your future.

Your grit, drive, and stubbornness to overcome your adversity has to come from within. To bolster that, some pray, others meditate, while others reach out to a support network of friends and family. Don't hesitate to reach out to others and employ whatever means needed to strengthen you in your fight to restore your situation to one that is more normal for you.

If discussion with others on this site or venting to this group helps you, then please continue these discussions. I know that this group will certainly offer all the help, comfort, advice and support as we can.
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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #10 on: January 21, 2024, 08:29:35 PM »
that is a crappy deal. i just stumbled upon a post of yours recently and had wondered what happened.

best of luck. you are young and things will get better.
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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #11 on: January 22, 2024, 04:40:29 AM »
Wow, that's a hard road.  Are you still employed by the press company?

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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #12 on: January 22, 2024, 04:51:34 AM »
Wow, that's a hard road.  Are you still employed by the press company?
A different one now

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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #13 on: January 22, 2024, 09:18:42 AM »
that is a crappy deal. i just stumbled upon a post of yours recently and had wondered what happened.

best of luck. you are young and things will get better.
Thank you

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Re: My life crashed
« Reply #14 on: January 22, 2024, 07:47:05 PM »
TacFun, I hear you. Been thru a very similar situation. A long time ago, but still remember.

The bottom falls out, and you're hanging by your fingernails. Not fun, not easy, and not quick - but recovery is possible. And you've got some like-minded mates here.